ELISE MARTINET
PSYCHOTHERAPY FOR MODERN RELATIONSHIP
A RELATIONSHIP PATTERN ASSESSMENT
When you're carrying so much, what happens to the relationship?
Explore The Carrying Dynamic™ Assessment
Sometimes, one person becomes responsible for anticipating needs, keeping things organized, managing difficult conversations, and repairing disconnection. Over time, there may be less room for the other person to participate fully.
This reflective assessment invites you to explore how emotional and practical responsibility may be distributed in your relationship and what a more mutual partnership could look like.
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A RELATIONSHIP PATTERN ASSESSMENT
The Carrying
Dynamic™Assessment
Explore the patterns behind emotional responsibility, overfunctioning, and shared participation.
When one person carries more, it can be difficult to see how that pattern shapes your relationship. The Carrying Dynamic™ Assessment offers a space to reflect on the ways responsibility may be distributed in your relationship and consider what a more mutual partnership could look like.
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A RELATIONSHIP PATTERN ASSESSMENT
The Carrying
Dynamic™Assessment
Explore the patterns behind emotional responsibility, overfunctioning, and shared participation.
When one person carries more, it can be difficult to see how that pattern shapes your relationship. The Carrying Dynamic™ Assessment offers a space to reflect on the ways responsibility may be distributed in your relationship and consider what a more mutual partnership could look like.
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A CLIENT'S EXPERIENCE
“She brings zero judgment... just kind guidance, deep wisdom, and a calm, grounding presence that makes it incredibly easy to open up.”
— Client H
THE CARRYING DYNAMIC™
Understand the pattern, not just the argument.
When the same relationship tensions keep returning, it can help to look beyond a single disagreement and consider the dynamic taking shape between you.
WHAT YOU'LL EXPLORE
01
Responsibility
How much of the relationship's emotional
and practical work do you take on?
02
Patterns
What happens when you step in, take over,
or feel responsible for making things work?
03
Participation
How are responsibility and relational effort
shared?
04
Reflection
What might you want to understand differently
about your relationship?
THE CARRYING DYNAMIC™
A system, not a
character flaw.
Sometimes, one person becomes responsible for more than their own needs. They may also anticipate, organize. regulate, and repair the emotional life of the relationship.
Over time, this dynamic can become familiar, leaving less room for the other person to develop their own capacity for participation and responsibility.
The assessment invites you to reflect on these patterns without reducing either person to a label or assigning blame.
WHAT YOU'LL EXPLORE
01
Responsibility
How much of the relationship's emotional
and practical work do you take on?
02
Patterns
What happens when you step in, take over,
or feel responsible for making things work?
03
Participation
How are responsibility and relational effort
shared
04
Reflection
What might you want to understand differently
about your relationship
THE CARRYING DYNAMIC™
A system, not a
character flaw.
Sometimes, one person becomes responsible for more than their own needs. They may also anticipate, organize. regulate, and repair the emotional life of the relationship.
Over time, this dynamic can become familiar, leaving less room for the other person to develop their own capacity for participation and responsibility.
The assessment invites you to reflect on these patterns without reducing either person to a label or assigning blame.
WHAT YOU'LL EXPLORE
01
Responsibility
How much of the relationship's emotional and practical work do you take on?
02
Patterns
What happens when you step in, take over, or feel responsible for making things work?
03
Participation
How are responsibility and relational effort shared
04
Reflection
What might you want to understand differently about your relationship
🔒Privacy Policy: Your Information is 100% Secure.
RECOGNIZE YOUR EXPERIENCE
Different experiences.
A shared relationship.
RECOGNIZE YOUR EXPERIENCE
Different experiences.
A shared relationship.
RECOGNIZE YOUR EXPERIENCE
Different experiences.
A shared relationship.
For the person who holds
everything together
You may find yourself anticipating needs, initiating difficult conversations, or making sure nothing falls apart. You want to understand what carrying so much responsibility means for you and your relationship.
For the person who wants to participate more fully
You may want to understand your emotional responses, recognize your impact, and become more engaged in the responsibilities of your relationship.
For couple who keep returning to the same patterns
You may experience recurring conflict, unequal responsibility, or disconnection despite wanting things to improve.
This assessment is an invitation to reflection, not a diagnosis, a verdict about your relationship, or a way to assign blame.
🔒Privacy Policy: Your Information is 100% Secure.
For the person who holds
everything together
You may find yourself anticipating needs, initiating difficult conversations, or making sure nothing falls apart. You care about your relationship, but carrying so much can become exhausting.
For the person who wants to participate more fully
You may want to better understand your emotional responses, recognize your impact, and become more engaged in the responsibilities of your relationship.
For couple who keep returning to the same patterns
You may experience recurring conflict, unequal responsibility. or disconnection despite wanting things to improve.
The assessment offers a starting point for refiection-not a diagnosis or a verdict about your relationship.
🔒Privacy Policy: Your Information is 100% Secure.
For the person who holds everything together
You may find yourself anticipating needs, initiating difficult conversations, or making sure nothing falls apart. You care about your relationship, but carrying so much can become exhausting.
For the person who wants to participate more fully
You may want to better understand your emotional responses, recognize your impact, and become more engaged in the responsibilities of your relationship.
For couple who keep returning to the same patterns
You may experience recurring conflict, unequal responsibility. or disconnection despite wanting things to improve.
The assessment offers a starting point for refiection-not a diagnosis or a verdict about your relationship.
MEET ELISE MARTINET
Thoughtful work for modern relationships.
Elise Martinet, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Elise Michele Martinet, LMFT, is a Southern California psychotherapist, writer, educator, and speaker whose work sits at the intersection of emotional responsibility, attachment, achievement, and intimate partnership.
Her relational, attachment-based, and trauma-informed approach helps capable women understand overfunctioning, helps men develop emotional skills, and helps couples recognize recurring relationship patterns.
Her founder story includes motherhood, heartbreak, faith, survival, rebuilding, and reinvention. These experiences inform her humanity, not the boundaries of her clinical work.
MEET ELISE MARTINET
Thoughtful work for modern relationships.
Elise Martinet, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Elise Michele Martinet, LMFT, is a Southern California psychotherapist, writer, educator, and speaker whose work sits at the intersection of emotional responsibility, attachment, achievement, and intimate partnership.
Her relational, attachment-based, and trauma-informed approach helps capable women understand overfunctioning, helps men develop emotional skills, and helps couples recognize recurring relationship patterns.
Her work invites people to consider how they participate in their relationships and explore the possibility of more mutual, connected ways of relating.
MEET ELISE MARTINET
Thoughtful work for modern relationships.
Elise Martinet, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Elise Michele Martinet, LMFT, is a Southern California psychotherapist, writer, educator, and speaker whose work sits at the intersection of emotional responsibility, attachment, achievement, and intimate partnership.
Her relational, attachment-based, and trauma-informed approach helps capable women understand overfunctioning, helps men develop emotional skills, and helps couples recognize recurring relationship patterns.
Her founder story includes motherhood, heartbreak, faith, survival, rebuilding, and reinvention. These experiences inform her humanity, not the boundaries of her clinical work.
MEET ELISE MARTINET
Thoughtful work for modern relationships.
Elise Martinet, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Elise Michele Martinet, LMFT, is a Southern California psychotherapist, writer, educator, and speaker whose work sits at the intersection of emotional responsibility, attachment, achievement, and intimate partnership.
Her relational, attachment-based, and trauma-informed approach helps capable women understand overfunctioning, helps men develop emotional skills, and helps couples recognize recurring relationship patterns.
Her founder story includes motherhood, heartbreak, faith, survival, rebuilding, and reinvention. These experiences inform her humanity, not the boundaries of her clinical work.
MEET ELISE MARTINET
Thoughtful work for modern relationships.
Elise Martinet, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Elise Michele Martinet, LMFT, is a Southern California psychotherapist, writer, educator, and speaker whose work sits at the intersection of emotional responsibility, attachment, achievement, and intimate partnership.
Her relational, attachment-based, and trauma-informed approach helps capable women understand overfunctioning, helps men develop emotional skills, and helps couples recognize recurring relationship patterns.
Her founder story includes motherhood, heartbreak, faith, survival, rebuilding, and reinvention. These experiences inform her humanity, not the boundaries of her clinical work.
REFLECTIONS & EXPERIENCES
Words that speak to the experience
REFLECTIONS AND EXPERIENCES
A different way of seeing the pattern.
REFLECTIONS AND EXPERIENCES
A different way of seeing the pattern.
Elise has such a calming, warm presence that aids to her knowledge and passion as a therapist. I had the pleasure of training and working alongside her and believe anyone who gets to be a client of hers is in good hands!
I had the honor of having Elise as a clinician in my group practice. Her ability to relate to her clients and make them feel seen and understood is amazing. She is a strong clinician who brings so much to her clients.
Elise is one of the most thoughtful, empathetic therapists I know. Her compassionate approach and profoun care of clients create a safe and nurturing space for healing. In short, Elise's insightful guidance is a gift, I hands! highly, highly recommend her.
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TAKE THE NEXT STEP
What might change when you begin to see the pattern?
You don't have to have every answer to begin reflecting on your relationship. Take the Carrying Dynamic™ Assessment and explore what greater mutual participation could look like for you.
TAKE THE NEXT STEP
What might change when you begin to see the pattern?
You don't have to have every answer to begin reflecting on your relationship. Take the Carrying Dynamic™ Assessment and explore what greater mutual participation could look like for you.
Privacy Policy: Your Information is 100% Secure.
TAKE THE NEXT STEP
What might change when you begin to see the pattern?
You don't have to have every answer to begin reflecting on your relationship. Take the Carrying Dynamic™ Assessment and explore what greater mutual participation could look like for you.
🔒Privacy Policy: Your Information is 100% Secure.
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